Don’t buy the story that people have to stay together “for the kids”. Kids are fine when the parents don’t fill them with fear and foreboding and judgments. Children are infinitely adaptable and want to be happy, and will be if allowed to. They still have the capacity to feel emotion and let it move […]


Conscious Uncoupling

by Neseret on December 26, 2014

“A relationship that ends is not a failure or punishment, it is a lesson.” ~ Robert Burney ~ Every one of us will experience the ending of a relationship multiple times throughout our lifetime. This is specially true when it comes to romantic relationships. How many times have you experienced a romantic relationship that changed? Even […]


“It is easy to be who I am…It is easy to be in this relationship….It feels real…It feels secure…It feels true…It feels comfortable…It feels good…It feels like love….It feels like HOME…” How does your  romantic relationship feel like?  


The Root of Dysfunctional Relationships

by Neseret on November 29, 2012

“Our hearts have been broken because we were taught to do the Dance of Love in a dysfunctional way/to the wrong music.” ~ Robert Burney ~ Most of us went to shcool and were taught everything but the things that mattered most. If you’re like majority of human beings “the home” and “the adults” that were […]

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Dating: No Gut No Glory

by Neseret on January 22, 2012

This is an exerpt from Joni Hilton’s book “Dating: No Gut No Glory“. “It isn’t even feeling smitten when you’re together; it’s loving just as much when you’re apart. It isn’t being so obsessed that you can hardly eat; it is feeling so secure and happy that you eat sensibly. It isn’t an inability to […]


What is True Love?

by Neseret on November 4, 2011

 photo credit: spikey_64 Recently watching one of Oprah’s life classes with Iyanla Vanzant I realized that the relationship I’m involved in right now is the most loving and nurturing relationship I’ve ever experienced in my life. Mind you I have been in plenty of relationships before, however looking back I realize all those times I thought I was “in love” were […]


Toxic Love

by Neseret on July 18, 2011

“As long as we believe that someone else has the power to make us happy then we are setting ourselves up to be victims” One of the biggest problems with relationships in this society is that the context we approach them from is too small. We were taught that getting the relationship is the goal. […]


Romantic Relationships – Commitment

by Neseret on July 10, 2011

True Partnership is achieved only by separate and whole beings who retain their separateness even as they unite. Remember to let the winds of heaven dance between you. ~ The Book of Runes, Partnership ~ In Faith and love I renew my commitment to you this day. In the ancient runic tradition, Gebo signified a […]